Thread bump, but hopefully the route I took will help someone else.
After trying the Draw-Tite 75282, I would also definitely recommend the OEM hitch. The vertical plates on the Draw-Tite were welded at the wrong angle (think toe-in if they were wheels) so I couldn't get the two forward-most bolt holes to line up to the weldnuts in the frame.
After reading reviews on Amazon and E-Trailer, it seems to be a common occurrence. And not many folks have the capability to modify what appeared to be 3/16" plate. I do, but I figured something purpose-made would be a literal bolt-on job, otherwise I would've made my own and gotten it certified at Eckhart (local trailer hitch place), so I returned the Draw-Tite and got the OEM one.
Not only did the OEM one fit perfectly, but it included:
- Nicer serrated, flange-head, pilot-point bolts instead of generic hex bolts with flat washers and lock washers.
- Supplemental horizontal brackets, meaning a total of ten bolts hold the hitch in place instead of just six.
- Trailer hitch plug. I didn't need it, but it was a nice touch.
I’d probably buy this for an additional $40 and save/sell or discard the 4-way that comes with it. That’s not much worse than buying the Nissan kit for the $70 or $80 that it costs.
CURT 56225 Vehicle-Side Custom 4-Pin Trailer Wiring Harness, Fits Select Nissan Frontier, Pathfinder, Xterra, Suzuki Equator , Black
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I went with the Hopkins 43534 connector and the Curt 56225 wiring kit. I installed the Hopkins in the bumper to the left side of the license plate. I didn't need the 4-way that the Curt 56225 included since I used the Hopkins connector, but I did need the relays in the Curt kit.
Without the relays you lights won’t work, when people buy aftermarket to save money they find out why they saved as they still need to go buy the relays and the. Add it up and you saved $0 plus you’re angry by then.
Specifically, the taillights won't work, at least on my '19. Without the relays I still had brake lights and turn signals on both the 4-way and 7-way.
There are plenty here who drilled their bumper after they removed the attached bracket as it looks way better and can’t get bent up.
I cut the 7-way bracket off the OEM hitch, but only the part that hangs down. I just zipped it off with my $10 Harbor Freight angle grinder with cutoff disc, then primed and painted the bare metal edge. I figure I'd leave the rest of the bracket in case I want to bolt something else to it in the future, and because that part isn't visible anyway. For now it is a nice mini skid plate.