As an owner of bilstein 5100 front struts I know exactly where you are coming from. Mine are on the 1.5" setting and although most of the time on the road they are just fine, over bumps or gravel roads its horrible. They have very little rebound control as in they violently slosh you side to side. They are rough on down travel and then too soft and uncontrolled on up travel. I have ordered the OME 90003 struts and MD duty coils for my truck for $420 shipped and they are in my garage waiting to be installed along with the matching medium duty leaf springs. I should have these installed in the next week or two and can let you know what I think. Honestly cant be any worse than it is now. I researched everything and landed on the OME package, seemed like the best for what I need. Highway, mountain passes and lots of light offroad/gravel roads. Will see how it goes but I'm assuming it will be decently better