Running your engine while refueling often caused evaporative emission system leak codes to get triggered, not fuel level sensor codes. He may have been a Nissan service tech, but that doesn't necessarily mean he knows what he's talking about! I was a Nissan Master Tech for 16 years and, unfortunately, there are a lot of guys like that!
The fuel level sensor harness should run along the top of the frame rail to the engine compartment where it merges into the engine compartment harness and eventually enters the passenger compartment through the firewall. If you are really determined to diagnose the problem, download a factory service manual for your Frontier and perform the step-by-step diagnostics for P1464. It should be in the Engine Control (EC) chapter. NissanHelp.com has downloadable chapters and Nico Club's site has full service manual downloads, both for free. The FSM will not only give you the diagnostic steps, but wiring diagrams, connector views, component check procedures, system description and everything you need to know to properly diagnose the problem.